High-Conflict Couples
You’re Tired of the Fights. But You’re Not Ready to Give Up.
Intensives are great for couples who love hard, fight hard, and feel stuck in a painful loop. You want peace—but you don’t know how to get there. We do! We can help you find your way back to each other with a specifically curated plan for just the two of you.
Let’s Be Honest
If love were enough, you wouldn’t be here. Because you do love each other—but the arguments, the yelling, the shutting down, the walking away… it’s tearing you apart.
One of you explodes. The other shuts down.Or maybe both of you fight to be heard, and neither of you feels understood. You’re exhausted.
You're angry.
And somewhere deep down—you’re scared you won’t make it.
Both of you get defensive and find yourselves exploding and not even remembering why the fight started.
"Never underestimate the power of Intentional time with your partner"
Terry Gaspard
Here’s the truth:
You don’t need to keep living like this. You can make a change and rekindle the relationship you once loved.
This Is an Intensive Weekend for High-Conflict Couples
We specialize in working with couples in the storm.
We don’t flinch when voices rise. We don’t shy away from the hard stuff.
And we don’t believe you’re "too much" or "too broken."
We’ve helped couples who:
- Can’t talk without it turning into a fight
- Say things they later regret—deeply
- Feel stuck in cycles of blame, defensiveness, and shutdown
- Keep repeating the same painful arguments over and over
- Love each other, but feel like enemies
What Happens During the Weekend?
This is an intensive experience—not a vacation. But it might be the most important weekend of your life. However, you will be staying by the beach and will have time to enjoy each other and the area..
You’ll get:
Private sessions with a therapist trained in high-conflict dynamics
- In-the-moment coaching during emotional escalations
- Real tools to break the destructive cycle
- A plan for how to de-escalate, reconnect, and move forward—even when it’s hard
- A chance to say what needs to be said, and finally be heard
Why This Works
Because it’s focused, intentional, and emotionally honest.
Because you’re not in a sterile office with 50 minutes to make progress.
Because we don’t just talk—we teach, guide, mediate, and heal.
And because you’re both showing up.
What You’ll Walk Away With
- A clear map of your conflict patterns—and how to break them
- New communication strategies that actually work under pressure
- A deeper understanding of each other’s triggers and needs
- Repair from the damage that’s been done
- A plan for how to rebuild trust, safety, and stability
You’re Not the Only One
"We were fighting every day. The weekend gave us a new language—and a way to pause before we destroy each other again."
— D & M
"We used to think we just weren’t compatible. Turns out we were just stuck in a cycle we didn’t know how to escape."
— Alana & Jeff
"It wasn’t easy. But it was worth it. We left with tools we use every single day."
— R & T
This Might Be Your Last Chance—Let It Be Your Turning Point. We know what’s at stake. You’re not here for fluff. You’re here because you can’t keep going like this. Don’t wait for another fight to decide it’s too late. This weekend could be the moment you both look back on and say,
“That’s when everything started to change.”
Available Online
From the comfort of anywhere
Sometimes, its necessary to do the work from afar.
We will pair you with a therapist experienced in virtual techniques, so you can enjoy the unique benefit of a curated plan that is specific to your needs and the unique experience of being online.
